Unemployment, Foreclosures, and Poverty are rampant today

Tonight on www.bks1radio.com @ 11 pm est - 8 pm pst Bks1 Radios Live In The Cipher team discusses the state of the economy.

“Tis the season to be Jolly”, but how to you find the joy when your circumstances are uncertain.  The unemployment rate is through the roof and the foreclosures on home still rampant.  What is in place for the average Joe, the everyday man and woman that want to give a good days work for a good days pay, but the jobs just are not there.  The rate in which families are losing their homes is unconscionable and   Those in power have presented great ideas, but have they trickled down to those that need it most? America has such extremes from the very rich to the very poor, but those in the middle the working class seem to be suffering at alarming rates without assistance that really works.  What do you do if you fall behind in your mortgage?  What can you do if your home is about to be auctioned?  What help is out there if you have lost your job?  Tonight we will talk about the state of the economic condition of the US and the resources that may help those that need it most at this time.  Tis the season now let’s find help for those who need it “Live In The Vocal Booth”

Call in 646-929-1530 or chat in our shout box! Let us know how you feel about the state of the economy. BKS1 Radio join the movement!! 

Baby whats more important? Your Job, Family, Friends or Me!!!!

Saturday Aug. 7, 2010 on www.bks1radio.com the Live in the Vocal Booth team discusses relationships and the delicate balance it takes to maintain them. "Baby what's more important? Your Family, Your Job, Your Friends or Me? Don't make your mate choose.....":

You had friends, family, and career goals all before you got into a new relationship, now you’re in a new relationship and your mate gets upset with the time you put into other things besides them. How do you get your mate to understand that even though we are together we are still individuals and you love them but you had a life before them. Are they always calling you when you hangout with your friends? Do they interrupt you all the time when you’re at work or doing something you like to do? When you want personal quality time with your family do they come up with something they want you to do with them? Do they start fights to get your attention because you’re focusing on something that’s important to you and it’s not them? The BKS Team will discuss these relationship issues along with You the Listener. So Join the debate in the Chat Room or Call-In 646-929-1530 & Be Heard on THE LIVE IN THE VOCAL BOOTH SHOW.

Sex for Money - Do you or Don't you?

There is always this debate back n forth about payment for sex and will you or won't you? I say that to say this we all in one way or another pay for sex and every woman takes some sort of payment for sex directly or indirectly. So I believe we as a people need to stop judgmental when we view others and their preferences to take money for sex.

When you really break it down we all pay either in money, gifts or time for sex. In my opinion time is more valuable than money, since you can't make time back. I know the skeptics will say I don't take money or gifts directly from my partner for sex, but seriously think about it. You do take a payment for sex, married couples too. If a dude wanted to get at you, but never took you out or spent anytime with you then you would never ever give him any parts of the pussy. If you husband or boyfriend, didn't take you out, get you anniversary gifts, birthday gifts or anything, I highly doubt the sex would be jumping off either.

If a dude was interested and you found him to be of your liking as well if he w as bringing you gifts, flowers and taking you out. You will feel like you had to give him some or it wouldn't be right. So don't knock someone who cuts through all the other preliminaries and gets right to the business. The personal choice really has no baring on your life, unless its your money that is being used to during the act.

Really whats the difference between a woman who fucks for money and a woman who fucks the same number of guys for free? Same sexual activity and history. Now I am not talking about a street walker who will have sexual activity with anybody who has the money. There are woman who are very select in the men they choose to be with. I personally don't see a difference in two women with the same sexual history, where one takes money for sex and the other doesn't. There is no difference to me at all.

As long as both parties are in agreement that it is what it is, then there should be no issue. It will eliminate a lot of the excess drama of relationships and feelings being caught if two mature adults go into the relationship knowing what to expect and what is necessary to keep it going.

Lastly for all the dudes who say I will never pay for sex, stop lying cause you already have in one form or another. Through time, gifts, rent payment, bill payment or whatever. You have payed for sex may be not directly, but definitely indirectly for sure. But keep telling yourself whatever you need to, to make yourself feel a certain way or to make the public only see you in a certain light. Everybody has done it or will end up doing it for sure, that's the only thing besides death and taxes that's guaranteed in life.

These are just my thoughts....What do you think? Let me know