Being Single This time of Year – A joyful State or A State of Loneliness?

Tonight at 11 pm est – 8 pm pst on BKS1 Radios Live In The Vocal Booth show on www.bks1radio.com we discuss the holiday season and social gatherings. The Holidays are filled with parties and family gatherings. It’s a time where people are embracing one another giving gifts and just enjoying the fest ivies of the season. How does being single affect a person this time of year? Do you embrace your singleness or is it a source of sadness? How do you find contentment in being single when you really desire a mate? How do you deal with being single when all your friends seem to me mated up?

According to New York Times writer Sam Roberts in a 2007 article “51% of Women Are Now Living Without A Spouse” he states Seventy percent of African American women and fifty-one percent of Hispanic women are currently unmarried. Forty-five percent of white women (non-Hispanic) and forty percent of Asian women are unmarried. The percentage of unmarried black women is considerably higher. What are the circumstances that cause such a shift in the numbers? These numbers represent a large part of the population. Is being single the new trend?

Whether married or single how do you create the life you want? How will you attract the life and the people you want in your life? The Live in the Vocal Booth has the secret and you don’t want t to miss this show.




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Gender Roles in Society Today

Sun. December 5, 2010 - 10PM ET. 8PM PT
Tonight’s Topic: Has the Change in Gender Roles Hurt the Family and the Workplace?

Join us "Live In The Vocal Booth with The BKS1 Radio Team; Storm Norm “The General”, Trish aka "Super Woman ",Chill Mr. Keep It Real, Smoov P, Pretty Ricky Fontaine &Jeff aka Short Fuse

After 50 years of women moving into the workplace and men sharing in the at home responsibilities the roles traditionally held by men and women have drastically changed.

Women have evolved in almost every aspect of the work place from joining the arm forces to rising up the corporate ladder. Has this evolution been a positive one or has it broken the fiber of the family? This upward movement that has equipped women with competitive salaries and education be blamed for the crisis we see in youth violence and teenage pregnancy?

What about men that have taken on the role of Mr. Mom because mom can pull in more money and Dad stays home to rear the children. We want to know what you think about the gender switch and if it has made life better or worse. Let your voice be heard “Live in the Vocal Booth”.

Special thanks to Platinum Listener and Chat room rebel Mollie for this great topic.
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Unemployment, Foreclosures, and Poverty are rampant today

Tonight on www.bks1radio.com @ 11 pm est - 8 pm pst Bks1 Radios Live In The Cipher team discusses the state of the economy.

“Tis the season to be Jolly”, but how to you find the joy when your circumstances are uncertain.  The unemployment rate is through the roof and the foreclosures on home still rampant.  What is in place for the average Joe, the everyday man and woman that want to give a good days work for a good days pay, but the jobs just are not there.  The rate in which families are losing their homes is unconscionable and   Those in power have presented great ideas, but have they trickled down to those that need it most? America has such extremes from the very rich to the very poor, but those in the middle the working class seem to be suffering at alarming rates without assistance that really works.  What do you do if you fall behind in your mortgage?  What can you do if your home is about to be auctioned?  What help is out there if you have lost your job?  Tonight we will talk about the state of the economic condition of the US and the resources that may help those that need it most at this time.  Tis the season now let’s find help for those who need it “Live In The Vocal Booth”

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Family and the holiday season

Tonight on BKS1 radio's Live In The Vocal Booth Show @ 11 pm est - 8 pm pst on www.bks1radio.com we discuss: Family and Thanksgiving Turmoil!

Join us "Live In The Vocal Booth with The BKS1 Radio Team; Storm Norm “The General”, Trish aka "Super Woman ",Chill Mr. Keep It Real, Smoov P, and Jeff aka Short Fuse”

......Do you have the picture perfect family where conflict never rears it’s nasty little head or do you have a family immersed in dysfunction and conflict? Maybe your family is somewhat normal, but you can’t stand the hussy cousin that always has her breast out and tight jeans flaunting it in front of your man. What about that brother that always wants to borrow some money to get a smoke or a little nip or the friend that shows up empty handed and leaves with four plates and a pair of your pants.

The Holidays are supposed to be a great time for getting together with family and friends, but how do you survive the nonsense.

Tune in tonight as your BKS1 Team takes a serious look at resolving family conflict and learning to forgive so the family can grow and be strong and so nobody ends up in the ER after dinner. Call in with your stories of family turmoil and how you resolved it so we can all be thankful this Thanksgiving “Live in the Vocal Booth”


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Should you tell or keep a secret?

Tonight @11 pm est - 8 pm pst on www.bks1radio.com BKS1 Radios Live In The Vocal Booth Team will discuss another hot topic: Should You Tell?

You witness your friends spouse or significant other in a compromising position which gives the impression they maybe stepping out on their partner, do you tell your friend or should you confront the presumed guilty party?

What if your friend’s wife comes on to you leaving no doubt in your mind her intentions to seduce you?  What would you do?  How does one man tell another his wife or girlfriend came on to him?  If you were the friend what would you do, take it to the grave, tell the victimize partner or confront the suspecting cheater? 

If you were being cheated on would you want your friend to tell you if they knew?  Can real friends just stand back and do nothing when they may suspect their friend’s partner is guilty of stepping outside of the relationship.

What are the things you should consider before you act and will the truth really set you free or cause you to loose a friend?  Come share your story of Should I Tell “Live In The Vocal Booth. Call in 646-929-1530 begin_of_the_skype_highlighting              646-929-1530      end_of_the_skype_highlighting or chat in our Shout Box! Join the movement!

Have you ever lied to be with someone?

Tonight on www.bks1radio.com BKS1 Radio’s Live In The Vocal Booth Team discusses a hot topic, after our new music review.

This weeks CD Review Chaz Shepherd’s new release “Love & Truth”. We rate on a scale from 1 to 5.



Tonight’s Topic: I WILL LIE TO BE WITH YOU -HOW FAR WILL YOU GO TO GET WITH HIM OR HER?

Join us “Live In The Vocal Booth with The BKS1 Radio Team; Storm Norm “The General”, Trish aka “Super Woman “,Chill Mr. Keep It Real, Smoov P, & Jeff aka Short Fuse
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Do you intentionally portray yourself to be something or someone your not to get what you want? This happens all to often in politics, relationships and friendships. What is the inherent cause? Lack of self esteem, no confidence in yourself or what? Why would you want to be in something with someone who can’t accept you for you?
When we conceal our true thoughts and desires to win over that love interest how long can one perpetrate the lie? What does living a lie truly do to your emotional and mental health? After it all comes out in the wash was it worth it? What is the motivation that would drive a person to change who they are to conform to what another person wants, could it be Love, Jealousy, Spite, Hate or being weak minded? Let’s hear what you have to say “Live In The Vocal Booth”

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Are you in a relationship for all the wrong reasons?

TONIGHT AT 11PM ET. LIVE ON BKS1RADIO.COM "LIVE IN THE VOCAL BOOTH SHOW" OUR TOPIC: I'm In A Relationship But I Might Be With This Person For The Wrong Reasons.Am I A Bad Person? SPECIAL GUEST SINGER & NOW PASTOR DESIREE COLEMAN-JACKSON. DESIREE & HER HUSBAND FORMER NBA PLAYER, SPORTS COMMENTATOR MARK JACKSON ARE NOW PASTORS WITH THEIR OWN CHURCH CALL IN 646-929-1530 OR CHAT LIVE TONIGHT 11PM ET ON BKS1RADIO.COM

Want to Love someone, but cant seem to let the feelings out!!! Tell us all about it!!

SAT. SEPT. 18, 2010 - 11PM ET - 8PM PT LIVE ON BKS1RADIO.COM
Tonight’s Topic:LOVE LOCKED UP-DO YOU KEEP YOUR FEELINGS BURIED INSIDE-ARE THEY WAITING TO COME OUT? TIME TO TELL SOMEONE EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL.

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Have you ever felt lonely? The desire to be close is a need you have, but something keeps you locked up inside and you can’t share your deepest thoughts and feelings with anyone. People try to extend themselves to you, but you block it at every turn and the ability to be vulnerable to anyone is an inner war your inner self just won’t loose. How can you begin to open up and let others in and develop closeness within your friendships and love relationships? Let’s get close “Live In The Vocal Booth” . IF YOU LOVE SOMEONE OR JUST WANT TO GET SOMETHING OFF YOUR CHEST IT'S TIME TO LET THEM KNOW.

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Forbidden Love on BKS1 Radio's Live In The Vocal Booth Tonight!!

Tonight on www.bks1radio.com @ 11 pm est - 8 pm pst the Live In The Vocal Booth team discusses FORBIDDEN LOVE:
1.) HAVE YOU EVER BEEN ATTRACTED TO ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY MEMBERS MATE.
2. WOULD YOU EVER DATE OR HAVE YOU EVER DATED ONE OF YOUR FRIENDS OR FAMILY MEMBERS EXES? Tune in and let us know how you feel about it. Did it happen to you? Are you the one caught up in forbidden love? LET'S KEEP IT REAL!!!

Double Standards...Do they exist? In the media, your relationships, in society? Are they right?

Tonight on www.bks1radio.com BKS1 Radio @ 10 pm est – 7 pm pst the Live In The Vocal Booth Team along with you the listener will rate and review Kem’s latest release Intimacy. Join us forfor our live interactive review process. Then the @ 11pm est – 8 pm pst on www.bks1radio.com the team will discuss the topic for the night: Is There A Double Standard When It Comes 2 How You Treat Your Daughters & How You Treat Your Sons- Is There A Double Standard In Relationships Between Men and Women? Is There A Double Standard How The Media Handles Black Racist Comments Towards Whites & White Racist Comments Towards Blacks. WHAT DO YOU THINK? Tune in and let us know by chatting in our shout box or call in 646-929-1530

Baby whats more important? Your Job, Family, Friends or Me!!!!

Saturday Aug. 7, 2010 on www.bks1radio.com the Live in the Vocal Booth team discusses relationships and the delicate balance it takes to maintain them. "Baby what's more important? Your Family, Your Job, Your Friends or Me? Don't make your mate choose.....":

You had friends, family, and career goals all before you got into a new relationship, now you’re in a new relationship and your mate gets upset with the time you put into other things besides them. How do you get your mate to understand that even though we are together we are still individuals and you love them but you had a life before them. Are they always calling you when you hangout with your friends? Do they interrupt you all the time when you’re at work or doing something you like to do? When you want personal quality time with your family do they come up with something they want you to do with them? Do they start fights to get your attention because you’re focusing on something that’s important to you and it’s not them? The BKS Team will discuss these relationship issues along with You the Listener. So Join the debate in the Chat Room or Call-In 646-929-1530 & Be Heard on THE LIVE IN THE VOCAL BOOTH SHOW.

Break Ups? Who is more likely to leave?

Get Ready Tonight at 11pm Est- 8pm Pst Live On WWW.BKS1RADIO.COM Watch & Listen To The "Live In The Vocal Booth Show" We Discuss Relationships & Break Ups. Our Topic: Why Women Leave Men & Why The Men Never See It Coming? Our Special Guest Will Be Actor/Comedian Anthony Anderson & Comedian Royale Watkins-Call In & Be Heard 646-929-1530 or Chat Live. Can A Woma Leave A Man Emotionally Without Him Knowing It? Leave Your Comments Here To Be
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Sex for Money - Do you or Don't you?

There is always this debate back n forth about payment for sex and will you or won't you? I say that to say this we all in one way or another pay for sex and every woman takes some sort of payment for sex directly or indirectly. So I believe we as a people need to stop judgmental when we view others and their preferences to take money for sex.

When you really break it down we all pay either in money, gifts or time for sex. In my opinion time is more valuable than money, since you can't make time back. I know the skeptics will say I don't take money or gifts directly from my partner for sex, but seriously think about it. You do take a payment for sex, married couples too. If a dude wanted to get at you, but never took you out or spent anytime with you then you would never ever give him any parts of the pussy. If you husband or boyfriend, didn't take you out, get you anniversary gifts, birthday gifts or anything, I highly doubt the sex would be jumping off either.

If a dude was interested and you found him to be of your liking as well if he w as bringing you gifts, flowers and taking you out. You will feel like you had to give him some or it wouldn't be right. So don't knock someone who cuts through all the other preliminaries and gets right to the business. The personal choice really has no baring on your life, unless its your money that is being used to during the act.

Really whats the difference between a woman who fucks for money and a woman who fucks the same number of guys for free? Same sexual activity and history. Now I am not talking about a street walker who will have sexual activity with anybody who has the money. There are woman who are very select in the men they choose to be with. I personally don't see a difference in two women with the same sexual history, where one takes money for sex and the other doesn't. There is no difference to me at all.

As long as both parties are in agreement that it is what it is, then there should be no issue. It will eliminate a lot of the excess drama of relationships and feelings being caught if two mature adults go into the relationship knowing what to expect and what is necessary to keep it going.

Lastly for all the dudes who say I will never pay for sex, stop lying cause you already have in one form or another. Through time, gifts, rent payment, bill payment or whatever. You have payed for sex may be not directly, but definitely indirectly for sure. But keep telling yourself whatever you need to, to make yourself feel a certain way or to make the public only see you in a certain light. Everybody has done it or will end up doing it for sure, that's the only thing besides death and taxes that's guaranteed in life.

These are just my thoughts....What do you think? Let me know