There is always this debate back n forth about payment for sex and will you or won't you? I say that to say this we all in one way or another pay for sex and every woman takes some sort of payment for sex directly or indirectly. So I believe we as a people need to stop judgmental when we view others and their preferences to take money for sex.
When you really break it down we all pay either in money, gifts or time for sex. In my opinion time is more valuable than money, since you can't make time back. I know the skeptics will say I don't take money or gifts directly from my partner for sex, but seriously think about it. You do take a payment for sex, married couples too. If a dude wanted to get at you, but never took you out or spent anytime with you then you would never ever give him any parts of the pussy. If you husband or boyfriend, didn't take you out, get you anniversary gifts, birthday gifts or anything, I highly doubt the sex would be jumping off either.
If a dude was interested and you found him to be of your liking as well if he w as bringing you gifts, flowers and taking you out. You will feel like you had to give him some or it wouldn't be right. So don't knock someone who cuts through all the other preliminaries and gets right to the business. The personal choice really has no baring on your life, unless its your money that is being used to during the act.
Really whats the difference between a woman who fucks for money and a woman who fucks the same number of guys for free? Same sexual activity and history. Now I am not talking about a street walker who will have sexual activity with anybody who has the money. There are woman who are very select in the men they choose to be with. I personally don't see a difference in two women with the same sexual history, where one takes money for sex and the other doesn't. There is no difference to me at all.
As long as both parties are in agreement that it is what it is, then there should be no issue. It will eliminate a lot of the excess drama of relationships and feelings being caught if two mature adults go into the relationship knowing what to expect and what is necessary to keep it going.
Lastly for all the dudes who say I will never pay for sex, stop lying cause you already have in one form or another. Through time, gifts, rent payment, bill payment or whatever. You have payed for sex may be not directly, but definitely indirectly for sure. But keep telling yourself whatever you need to, to make yourself feel a certain way or to make the public only see you in a certain light. Everybody has done it or will end up doing it for sure, that's the only thing besides death and taxes that's guaranteed in life.
These are just my thoughts....What do you think? Let me know
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